In the article, "Jaden Smith Shares Dad Will Smith's Best Advice: 'Don't Have a Girlfriend'," the author talks about Will Smith's advice to his son, Jaden.
The article says that Jaden and Will were in an interview for their new movie, "After Earth," and Jaden was talking about the advice.
"Probably the best advice he's ever given me is, 'Don't have a girlfriend. The stress is real," Jaden says. Will Smith laughs, but clarifies that his advice is just "for now."
"At this point, I just want him to establish his dreams, establish his desires," Will said. "Find out who he is. And blending with another person is very difficult, and a lot of times you can lose yourself in that process. So my encouragement to him is to be honest with anybody that he interacts with. Don't make commitments that a 14-year-old can't live up to."
Let me start out by saying Will Smith is an AWESOME dad! He's a PARENT and not a dictator, and I believe this is what a lot of kids need. I like the way he gave his advice, and then gave a legit explanation as to why he feels his advice is right. And, it is. Being in a relationship at a young age can really mess up your head at who and what you want to be. Especially when some people will come around and really want you to be what they want you to be.
This advice actually really helped me. I'm not one who wants to be in a serious relationship, but I still would like to know why my dad wants me to stay a "little girl." At least that's what he makes it seem like. But, when I ask him why, he always says, "Because I said so," and, "You're too young anyway." By now, dad's should know that those statements are going to make us want to do this anyway. But this explanation makes sense, and it actually makes me think.
Wise dad, wise dad.
